1. May the Bird of Paradise Fly Up Your Nose by "Little" Jimmy Dickens
2. Walk Right In by The Rooftop Singers
3. And I Love You So by Perry Como
4. Malaguena by Jose Feliciano
5. You Don't Know Me by Eddy Arnold
6. He'll Have to Go by Jim Reeves
7. Maria Elena by Los Indios Tabajaras
8. Maria Elena by Gene Autry
9. Your Cheatin' Heart by Hank Williams
10. King of the Road by Roger Miller
11. Jackson by Johnny Cash with June Carter Cash
12. Johnny B. Goode by Chuck Berry
13. Bad, Bad Leroy Brown by Jim Croce
14. Yakety Yak by The Coasters
15. Make the World Go Away by Eddy Arnold
16. Dream by Roy Orbison
There are two reasons my life is a playlist. One is named Marilyn ~ the other one is named Bob. Bob and Marilyn Alspaugh created an environment where music was like air ~ an essential part of our existence, ever surrounding us, full of purpose, and constantly sought after. I don't ever remember any music being taboo and it seems like my parents could always find something to enjoy about any genre. I'm sure that on occasion they told us to turn something down ~ that's inevitable. I do, however, remember my father referring to the emerging rap craze as "rap crap" but I sincerely believe that in time, if he'd been able to stay with us a little longer, he'd even have found something of credit in rap. He studied music, not just notes and chords, but he seemed to be able to pull the most amazing facts about a song, artist, or genre out of the air. He was always teaching, always learning. He was a heat-seeking missile for information of all kinds and I am so thankful that I've inherited that trait from him.
This play list is his - Robert Dean Alspaugh's. They are some of the songs that it is impossible for me to hear without thinking of him. They are songs he sang or played in bands. They are the songs about which I want to share stories and thoughts.
I double-dipped on this playlist and I imagine that will happen often in my reminiscing but it will always be for a reason. May the Bird of Paradise . . heads off the list because, again, a very, very early memory and one of the first songs he taught me. I loved hearing him sing it and would request it of him often. He used to carry me around on his shoulders and I would put my little hands around his neck. I loved to feel his adam's apple bob up and down as he sang and talked. Sometimes I'd squeeze a little too hard and he'd make this hilarious sound which, of course, made his adam's apple bob even more. This is where I'd insert a soundtrack of giggles because there were lots of them on dad's shoulders. Love this man!! I can't even begin to express it in words.
Walk Right In was a popular song of 1963 and my dad sang it on playing jobs. I loved hearing him sing but guitar was his greatest gift. The man could play!!! He also taught many people in the region. There are some strong chord progressions in this song and I loved hearing him play them. I've tried to take guitar lessons several times but was too wimpy to get past the callous-building stage. It always amazed me that he could both play guitar and sing at the same time. Anyway, the intro to this song will forever be my dad.
The next song makes me cry - always. It's a beautiful love song but it is so closely associated with my dad. My mother always loved it when he sang it and I'd love to have a recording of his rendition but, alas, Perry Como will have to do for now. When I began singing in our family band I sang harmony with him on the chorus and that is usually what I do now when I hear this song. Collin Raye also has a lovely version which was Tina's wedding song.
Malaguena is a classical guitar piece which my father would practice throughout his life. He did so well but he'd make a little mistake and I'd hear words of frustration (usually NOT swear words) and he'd try it again and again. Really, it sounded perfect to me, but I learned that no matter how accomplished you are at something, you can always learn more . . . and should.
You Don't Know Me and He'll Have to Go are both songs that were well-suited for my father's voice and were always requested on jobs. Pretty much anything Eddy or Jim make me think of Dad.
Maria Elena is a special song. I've included two versions. The instrumental is such a flashback! It is identical to how my father played it and was usually one of the songs he'd play at night after we kids were sent to bed. On jobs, though, he'd sing the words which is why I included Gene Autry's version. The words were lovely and I'd lay upstairs in bed and sing the words quietly to myself as he'd play the guitar downstairs. Mmmmm - lovely.
Your Cheatin' Heart was probably the first heartbreak song I ever knew and Dad did a great job with it. It is also the first song he taught me chords to on the guitar on one of his attempts to teach me. It was my first realization that playing guitar and singing at the same time were hard!!!
King of the Road was another popular song of the day and it was requested often. It is also another 'Sunday drive' song which we'd sing as we rolled along. It always grossed me out, the thought of smoking "old stogies I have found." Ew!!
Jackson is a fun song! Such a tongue-in-cheek song about a rascal and his woman telling him like it is! Dad was Johnny and I sang June's part. I always wished I could make my voice growl like she could. Every now and then I give it a try . . . nope, still can't.
Johnny B. Goode is a blast to perform! The intro guitar part is the announcement and it lets everyone in the room know ~ You better grab your partner because it's time to dance!!! It was ALWAYS a hit and quite often would be requested for a do-over later. Mom would rock on the keyboard and Dad, of course, had the guitar down pat! I sang back up and there are good memories here. Lots of 'em!
Bad, Bad Leroy Brown came along later but Dad did such a good job on it. I sang an echo back up part on the chorus. Dad was always careful with his language and when I heard him rehearsing this song I thought, "Hmmm. What's he going to do about the damn on the chorus?" Well, he said darn instead. He always kept it clean ~ and if there was a theme in a song that was a little questionable he always had a way to make some changes and clean it up. For instance, he sang a song by Billy Swan called I Can Help and in the song they say "If your child needs a dad, I Can Help." I'm thinking even that was a little risque because he sang, "If your child needs a bath, I can help." He'd always give me a little grin as he sang it, like he'd just gotten away with something.
Yakety Yak was another fun song which I loved. My parents had a band with another couple, Roy and Carole Gage. Roy sang and played bass and Carole did lead vocals. Roy's voice was very deep and on Yakety Yak he chimed in the "don't talk back" part. Perhaps someday I'll do a playlist of Roy and Carole songs, too. They were a huge part of my life. They had no children of their own and always looked on us kids as part of their family. The Coasters might have made this song a hit, but it will always be Bob and Roy's voices I hear.
I closed the list with Dream and I might just do that with every playlist. Again, this is a song so closely related to my dad that it is a part of him. It closed every job I ever played. It was the amen to our musical supplications.